đ Ah Yes⌠New Year, New You (Again?)
It seems to be a very Western thing:
When the New Year rolls around, we pause, reflect, and then try to manifest those reflections into concrete goals weâre convinced weâll absolutely crush this time.
We go all in.
đĽ This is the year of salads.
đď¸ This is the year of gym passes.
đŤ This is the year we swear off things (and people) that donât âserve us.â
đ This is the year weâll be kinder, more patient, more generous, more evolved humans.
And you know what?
For the most part, weâre deeply committed to these goals.
For aboutâŚ
âł 15 to 30 days.
Then something happens.
đŹ The Sneaky Pull of the Status Quo
Slowlyâalmost imperceptiblyâwe slide back into the way things were.
Not because the old way was great.
Not because we loved it.
But becauseâŚ
âĄď¸ it was familiar
âĄď¸ it was comfortable enough
âĄď¸ and honestly, it required less effort
Change is work.
Real work.
And this is where most goal-setting conversations fall apart.









